Important note before we begin: We are not professionals. Unfortunately, we can't provide you with a shelter, a lawyer, or be your rescuer. The purpose of this website is to collect the information that was already around and create a neat guideline for you.
My Decision - Consent Education Project
Welcome.
Your gender, age, political opinion, religious beliefs, language, and race do not carry any significance to enter this website. Our purpose is to provide you with the information you need to know but have never been told about your body and personal boundaries.
Chapter 1: What You Need to Know
Saying no is not a selfish act; it means respecting yourself.
Refusing something just because "it doesn't feel right" is a valid reason.
"No matter how much I try, I always have a hard time setting boundaries for myself. I don't want to get on bad terms with people."
Maybe we can change your idea about that. Could you give us a chance?
Did you know that harassment/assault has many types?
Perhaps in your daily life, someone (no matter who they are) steps into your personal boundaries, and you never notice. Let's learn together about it and try to put an end to it.
"I feel guilty/dirty/disgusting."
It is completely normal to feel this way, but you are none of those words. Click this button, and let me explain why the problem isn't you.
It's Not Your Fault, It Never Was
The healing process is slowly making sense of your reactions and gaining control back.
Down below, you can see the basics of the healing process and why it works that way.
What is "Healing Process" and How Does It Work?
Chapter 2: Trauma and Confusion
Warning: The topics in this section might be sensitive for some people.
"Am I overreacting?"
"Why am I acting this way?"
"Maybe I should've done something different, what if it is my fault?"
Common Reactions of Victims - Why Do They Happen? What Do They Mean?
Consent requires approval, not silence.
